Never underestimate a kind word or gesture! You do not know what the other person has been through that day and have no idea how a smile, or a kind word can make them feel.
That guy who may be driving a bit too slow may be driving a car that is on its last leg and he’s just trying to get to work to support his family. That annoying person on the cell phone may be talking their friend through a bad time. That person with a scowl on their face who seems rude may have had a lot of bad things happen to them all at once and what they really need is not your attitude in return but a warm smile that reminds them that things will be ok. The person who seemingly has no clue who is around them and gets in your way may have a lot on their mind, or are dealing with a serious decision and need your mercy. That friend who isn’t really being there emotionally for you now, may need you to be there for them emotionally a bit more.
Compassion means you are able to step outside of yourself and your situation and see, look, think or feel someone elses situation. It means you put yourself in their shoes and pay attention to their lives and what they may be facing. If all we ever do is take, and never give then we aren’t really benefitting another’s life, we are only out to make ours better.
Today, look for ways to make yourself a blessing to others. Look for ways to make someone smile, to show mercy or to be compassionate. Don’t assume why someone is doing what they are doing but allow yourself to consider that maybe what they have going on now is a bit more pressing than your current need.
Outside of our own world is a whole world of people who are in need, and although giving sometimes feels like too much you will be surprised to learn that in giving to others, your very own needs suddenly become less tragic.
I do believe that it is better to give than receive!
